Sunday, August 16, 2015

Dementia vs Alzheimer's



I have been asked numerous, numerous times what is dementia. Is it the same as Alzheimer's or is it different? So with the help of the Alzheimer's Association and the Association for Frontotemporal Degeneration (AFTD),  I will try to explain the difference and what it means in our lives.

Dementia is not a specific disease rather it  is a general term for a decline in mental ability severe enough to interfere with daily life.  It's an overall term that describes a wide range of symptoms associated with a decline in memory or other thinking skills severe enough to reduce a person's ability to perform everyday activities. Memory loss is an example. Alzheimer's is the most common type of dementia and accounts for 60 to 80 percent of cases.

Greg specifically has Frontotemporal Dementia or FTD.

Frontotemporal dementia is one of the less common forms of dementia.

The word frontotemporal refers to the two lobes of the brain that are damaged in this form of dementia. The frontal lobes of the brain – situated behind the forehead – control behavior and emotions, particularly on the right side of the brain. They also control language, usually on the left. The temporal lobes – on either side of the brain – have many roles. On the left side, these lobes control the understanding of words. In Greg's case both lobes of his brain are affected.

Frontotemporal dementia is caused when nerve cells in the frontal and/or temporal lobes of the brain die and the pathways that connect them change. There is also some loss of important chemical messengers. Over time, the brain tissue in the frontal and temporal lobes shrinks. This damage to the brain causes the typical symptoms of frontotemporal dementia, which include changes in personality, behavior and difficulties with language.

Frontotemporal dementia occurs much less often than other forms of dementia (such as Alzheimer’s disease or vascular dementia). However, it is a significant cause of dementia in younger people (under the age of 65). Frontotemporal dementia is probably the third most common cause for people in this age group. It affects men and women about equally.

Frontotemporal dementia is most often diagnosed between the ages of 45 and 65, but it can also affect younger or older people. This is considerably younger than the age at which people are most often diagnosed with the more common types of dementia such as Alzheimer’s disease.

There are three types of FTD:


-----behavioral variant FTD

-----progressive non-fluent aphasia

------semantic dementia

We have never been told which type Greg has. In doing some research I have not been able to pin point which type I believe he has.

In contrast to Alzheimer’s disease, people with early-stage  frontotemporal dementia tend not to have problems with day-to-day memory or with visuospatial skills (judging relationships and distances between objects).  It is unusual for a person with frontotemporal dementia to be aware of the extent of their problems. The symptoms are more often noticed by the people close to them. As with most forms of dementia, the initial symptoms can be very subtle, but they slowly get worse as the disease progresses over several years. The rate of progression of frontotemporal dementia varies greatly, from less than two years to 10 years or more. Research shows that on average, people live for about eight years after the start of symptoms. As frontotemporal dementia progresses, the differences between the three types becomes less obvious.The cause of frontotemporal dementia is not known. Experts assume that the disease reflects a mixture of genetic, medical and lifestyle factors.
 

Autopsy studies show that the death of nerve cells in the frontal and temporal lobes is linked to clumps of abnormal proteins inside the cells, including one called tau. The tau protein may take the form of Pick bodies, which gave frontotemporal dementia its original name of Pick’s disease.
 

Frontotemporal dementia runs in families much more often than in the more common forms of dementia. About one third of people with it have some family history of dementia.

About 10–15 per cent of people with frontotemporal dementia have a strong family history of it, with several close relatives in different generations affected. In contrast, strongly inherited early-onset Alzheimer’s disease affects less than 1 in 1,000 people with Alzheimer’s. Typically in these cases, frontotemporal dementia is inherited from a parent as a defect (mutation) in one of three genes: MAPT, GRN or C9ORF72.
 

Frontotemporal dementia can be hard to diagnose, because it is uncommon and does not initially cause memory problems. Doctors may also not suspect dementia in a middle-aged person.

Frontotemporal dementia may be misdiagnosed as atypical Alzheimer’s disease (a form of Alzheimer’s disease without early memory loss). Behavioral symptoms may be mistaken for depression, schizophrenia or obsessive-compulsive disorder. Problems with language or movement may be misdiagnosed as stroke.
After a person dies, it is possible to make a pathological diagnosis of frontotemporal dementia as the changes to the brain can be directly seen at a post-mortem.
Researchers are working to find effective new treatments for frontotemporal dementia, but there is currently no cure and the progression of the disease cannot be slowed.


Greg is mainly affected with his short term memory and his language---he can not remember the names of common objects and he does a lot of word searching. 

Our biggest fear is that because FTD is thought to be inherited our sons will be diagnosed with FTD someday. I pray daily that they will find a cure for this disease and that there will be better awareness that Alzheimer's and dementia. I also pray that this curse will be will be broken so that future generations  do not have to be burdened with disease. 

A quote from Brenda Bernard, Greg's cousin

" How many of us are affected? Two relatives right now ... Already lost my dad and 2 uncles. What have I learned? Caregivers are gifts from God, but their journey is incredibly hard. Let's pray for their strength and a cure!!



 













 



 
 


 












Wednesday, August 12, 2015

Baby Steps

 
 
 
 
Baby Steps-----small, manageable movements forward. Baby steps are my friends.
 
Why do we take backward steps when we should be taking baby steps forward? Progress is made step by step by step by doing the little things.
 
 
God is teaching me that taking baby steps is better than taking no steps at all.
 
 
July 23rd Greg went for a "short half hour bike ride", which turned into 7 hours. He was found by the police after I filed a missing persons report. He ended up losing his cell phone, not knowing where he had lost it other that in "the grass in a yard". Hence we had to get him a new phone and are unable to track the new phone as it is not a smart phone.
August 3rd I had a flat tire on the truck,  Greg got upset, while helping me change the tire. He ended up storming off and taking the Weston for a walk. I ended up calling Kiefer to help. August 11th Greg lost his cell phone, he thought at the park when he had walked Weston. Off to the park we went, back home where Greg proceeded to start looking in the garage. I found the phone in the house in the recliner, went out to tell Greg and he was gone, jumped in the pick up to find him walking the neighborhood retracing his earlier route.
 
Through all of these instances God keeps telling me to take baby steps, no giant steps but baby steps. Baby steps are good things, when we were babies and first learned to walk we did't take big,  humongous steps, we took baby steps. I confiscated the tires off of both of Greg's bikes. I will give the tire back eventially so he can go riding again, but this time it will be with some one. I didn't take the joy of riding away from him I just adjusted how and when he will go riding.
 
I know that Greg's behavior is not something that I can change but how I react to the behavior is a baby step that I can take. I means that I have to learn patience and how to control my behavior/temper. Greg losing his cell phone is some thing that I can not change, it will continue so I ahve now ordered a watch that can be used to  "track his movements" and he can also call selected phone numbers and it has an emergency SOS button on it. Another baby step.
 
Slowly these baby steps will become bigger steps but that will take time, or manybe the baby steps will become crawling instead.
 
All I know is that I am thankful that God is showing me to take baby steps and that He gives me the strength to fight these battles. And that He will continue to be with me through every step.
 
 
 
32 God gives me strength for the battle.
He keeps my way secure.
33 He makes my feet like the feet of a deer.
He causes me to stand on the highest places.
34 He trains my hands to fight every battle.
My arms can bend a bow of bronze.
35 Lord, you are like a shield that keeps me safe.
Your strong right hand keeps me going.

                         Psalm 18:32-35 (NIRV)
 

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Saturday, July 18, 2015

Thankfulness

                                                                                  Thankfulness

I am thankful that I have been chosen to join this journey that Greg is on, that I get to love Greg for who he at the moment that he is in. It is not easy to live with someone who has dementia, but I consider it a blessing from God. I believe God chose me, because it is not a "job" that everyone could handle. 
Can I handle it? Well yes, I believe I can, but only because I have the One who can help me by my side every step of the way. And for that I am thankful. Yes there are days where I want to give up in frustration, where I want to run into the bathroom and cry  and there are days that  I do. Why the bathroom, because that is the only place in the house where I have privacy. 
  
But then I have days like today. Today is one of those days when I am exceptionally thankful. today was a good day, our wonderful daughter in law Bobbi took Greg to the farm., the farm is where Bobbi's dad Wayne lives. About once a week Bobbi goes to the farm to visit her dad, she will usually call and ask if Greg wants to go along with her and Walter. The farm is where Greg can remembers and is happy and at home. Greg remembers the farm, because he spent his summers growing up helping his Uncle Roger at the farm in Rock Rapids. Greg can relate to the farm and loves to go help Wayne with the cows and whatever else needs to be done. It's a place where he and Walter can run, ride the four wheelers, feed the cows and whatever else they find to do, it's a way for Greg and Walter to spend time together and Greg can teach Walter the things that he remembers.  
Today was house cleaning day, with Trevor's help I cleaned, washed clothes and got a lot of things done that needs to get done that I haven't had the time to do. Yes I do occasionally go to the farm with them,  but I think that's it good for Greg to have some freedom and I don't have to worry about him. 

I am also thankful for Mercy Church and the friends that God has placed in my life, friends that are still at Mercy Church and those who have moved on to the things that God has called them to do and my girlfriends, past and present co-workers.  God placed these people in my life. They are people who are always ready with a listening ear, a helping hand, a phone call a bouquet of flowers  and words of wisdom. 

And what would I do without  our five sons, Trevor, Nich, Elliott, Bryce and Kiefer. Always willing to lend a listening ear, give me words of advise, to track Greg via the computer and his telephone as Greg is out bike riding, to go pick their dad up after he's gotten lost or to help find him or to do whatever I need them to do. 
 
No this is not the journey that I would have chosen for us. But God knew what he was doing when He set Greg and I on this journey, before either one of us was even thought of or born.  But I am forever grateful that I get to to go on this journey with Greg and that I have the wonderful support that I do to help us on this journey. 

Jeremiah 29:11   For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.

Sunday, June 28, 2015

It Breaks My Heart

                                          It Breaks My Heart

It breaks my heart when we play trivia and Greg can't remember the name of a song or who sings it, when it's a song that he's heard thousands of times.
It breaks my heart to listen to him word search for the most common words, chair, pen, pencil paper, scarf, screwdriver.
It breaks my heart when he can't remember who someone is, myself, Trevor, Elliott, Nich, Bobbi, Bryce, Kiefer or Walter.
It breaks my heart when he can't remember the last time he saw Walter, when he was just here yesterday or he saw him this morning in church.
It breaks my heart that Greg's sisters don't bother to call or keep in touch, or even care to find out how he is doing.
It breaks my heart that he may never get to know any of his future daughter in laws or grand children.
It breaks my heart knowing that these things will get worse.
And these are the things that break my heart.

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